Forgiveness + self-love = the combination of champions.
Perhaps you know that forgiveness is a strong healing agent for everyone involved, especially the person doing the forgiving?
Often, for many years people hold onto unhappiness that they have, grudges they’ve acquired, and resentments they’ve stored.
Sometimes people don’t realize they’ve held onto these negativities, and at other times maybe it gives them a sense of pride out of situations that are otherwise chalked up as defeats.
The truth is, even if these people don’t realize it at first, often these grudges are against themselves.
What does that mean?
Often, the forgiveness needs to be (or atleast start) with the self. It goes much further than the freedom that comes with releasing grudges against others. This goes deeper – to the secret disappointments in self from long ago. If a person forgives themselves the results can be truly profound.
The easiest way to begin self-forgiveness is to realize (and internalize) that you deserve it. It’s okay to have let the wrong people in, or to have managed a situation incorrectly. Everyone makes these errors at some point, and it always has something to do with important lessons. They might have taken a while to unfold, but now you’ve allowed them to and your life has changed…
The wrong people are out of your path, and situations have improved. You stuck it out and you’re here now — that in itself means you deserve to forgive.
The negative people and situations aren’t in your life anymore so allow their influences on your reality to wane as well!
Take a few quiet moments to reflect, and allow yourself to come to terms with things. After your self-forgiveness starts, you can also begin the process of further developing your self-love.
We are meant to be immersed in love, and sometimes the everyday world causes us to get bitter or forget. Come back to the divine a little more today, and practice self-forgiveness.
Thank you for reading!
Yours in Calmness,
Rev. Michelle
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