We all have those people or situations in our daily lives that question our patience. If it’s people, we wonder why they don’t have the same common sense we do, or the same willingness to pick up what’s being put down. It can often be frustrating to have to deal with these people and still show them common courtesy when they seem to not be on the level. Same with situations (which really stem from similar people) and in these cases, we might find ourselves aggravated at the drop of a hat.

So what’s the deal? Why are some of these people occasionally intolerable, and some of these situations’ simplistic roots hard to wrap our heads around?
There’s really only one answer… these people are not as talented or smart, and perhaps they have incredibly low self-esteem. The latter, of course, can actually be debilitating in new situations, because when someone lacks self-confidence they don’t have the courage to delve into resolutions as easily.

Now, it is the mark of an intelligent and talented person to find surroundings annoying at times, simply because of irrational decisions made by others. So if you’ve ever experienced anything along these lines – and judging by the fact that you’re reading this right now, your intelligence is obvious and I gather you have — give yourself a pat on the back! Recognizing and acknowledging your own worth is a must!

So, why is it important to be nice to everyone, regardless of their seeming lack of common sense???
Well, the easy answer is that being nice helps things get done, and it’s the grease to efficiency in the workplace and even in home-life. The more complex answer is that when you realize the root of why people are that way it’s easier for you to communicate with them, and help them raise their self-esteem and common sense levels.
Instead of succumbing to aggravation and being perplexed by their silly ways of doing things, remember the probable reason why they are acting in that manner. Utilize the opportunity to uplift them, to give them confidence, and to teach them the tools of the common-sense trade.

I think you’ll find that these people and situations are more effortless to deal with if you use that tactic, and… who knows? The issues might just iron themselves out eventually to where better decisions are made and better mannerisms are exhibited.

Thanks for reading!

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